Here are some songs for Inspiration: 

“To Where You Are”   Josh Groban         ………clearly written by a someone whose spouse has died.   We take so for granted that our spouse will be there.   This song is well worth the 4 minutes to listen because we are only promised today.    May you love your spouse, God’s way, today.   

           To listen now:    http://music.aol.com/artist/main.adp?artistid=512890      To listen free online, click the link, scroll to Songs/Videos (halfway down the page); select “To Where You Are” 

“The Prayer”       Song number 13 on the Josh Groban CD;  a lovely  song depicting Three-strand living, a man and women addressing God with the heart-felt petition…. “let this be our prayer…”                 To listen now:       http://www.olografix.org/krees/dfnet/html/multimedia.php3  To listen free online, click the link, scroll to Josh Groban - Sissel, “The Prayer”